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I wake up from a bad dream, covered in sweat and grasping for reality. Then, the spiral starts. Worthless. Broken. Crazy. My brain has all of my best mistakes on repeat. Anything and everything that I have messed up. All of the ways everyone hates me. Why am I like this? What is wrong with me? Then, slowly, recognition sets in.
Read MoreAs I sit in the sun enjoying the heat on my skin, it occurs to me, that for once I feel at ease. For a sufferer of PMDD, this is a sensation that eludes them, only ever being something others have the right to feel, to deserve; we can’t even allow ourselves to dream it. That used to be me. But today, things are different.
Read MoreIt's been almost a year since I began the injections to banish her from my life. I cast her out like discarded rubbish. I often wonder whether she deserved that. If I was truly prepared for what was about to come. Was it really that bad? Was she really that bad?
Read MoreI’m 35, and I’m about to voluntarily put my body into a state of chemical menopause. I’m about to shut down shop and call it quits for two organs that cause my mind to become a veritable wasteland of self-destruction in the week leading up to my period. And I’m scared.
Read MoreDid you know that July is Disability Pride Month! Honestly, it wasn’t until a few years into my diagnosis with PMDD that I first heard of it myself. When I was first diagnosed, I didn’t consider myself disabled. Sure, I spent weeks at a time in bed, wracked with pain, and had to take months and months off from work - but not disabled…
Read More“Which season best describes your personality?” I awkwardly laughed. “On what day?” I asked back. I got some laughs for my joke, but sadly it wasn’t really a joke at all. How much time did these people have? I so desperately wanted to share that I couldn’t pick just one, because like seasons change throughout a year, I too change like seasons every single month, and so do 1 out of every 20 women.
Read MoreThe impact of severe premenstrual disorders can be devastating and far-reaching, but we have an opportunity to intervene and make a positive difference. Once we recognise the connection, we can start rebuilding hope (and, yes, lives).
Read More‘Tug of war’ has long been my analogy to describe my experience with PMDD. It’s just like the game we played as kids, except in this case it’s just me up against a 9-foot, 300-pound, monster! I dig my feet into the ground, feeling as though my only option is to hold onto the rope and pull.
Read MoreI am at work sitting in my office, and I feel a familiar sensation in my body. My period has begun. Damn. I am flooded with guilt and regret and wondering, “How did I let this happen again?”
Read MoreThis journey has been a rollercoaster, but it has made me a stronger woman and individual. It has allowed me to be the most vulnerable I have ever been and allowed me to express who I am. PMDD, you were a process to live with, but you have been a blessing in disguise. This is my story.
Read MoreThe practice of writing is helpful and life-giving for anyone, including those with mental illness and mood disorders. Telling your story is a liberating act. It gives you a voice. It creates order out of chaos. It helps you draw meaning from your experience. Writing is a practice that has no doubt saved my own life and can benefit yours too.
Read MoreHow do you explain these weird mood swings that just randomly keep happening? Everyone is expecting the bold and extroverted Rishika to show up and do her thing, but I feel hollow inside; I almost don’t recognize myself.
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